Thursday, November 27, 2008

Complaining mode.


When I switched on to "Complaining Mode" sure is hard to switch it off. I've been finding things to complain about. Well not because those things don't deserve to be complaint about.My husband would say, "No point complaining". I know it's true but just got to keep on complaining. What ever my husband says, nothing can convince me that they are not so bad. Not only they are bad, but the more I talk about it, the matter become worse by itself. LOL

Even today, when my husband wanted to tell me about something that his brother did to my mil, he asked me to make a promise not to make any comment. I never made the promise but I threatened him to tell me what it was all about or I'd bug him to death. LOL He told me. Sure enough I just had to comment and just had to complain. LOL

Goodness. I really need to chill a bit. Don't want to end up like the cranky old ladies in the building here. :P

5 comments:

Farah Deen said...

oh yeah, you are perfectly right! I too love to listen to grapevines, gossips and latest stories, but how can we hear without passing any comments right? commenting is good, it releases the tension in the heart. lol

Katalin said...

Hi Syari,
Saya tdk hairan Syari merungut. Ada banyak sebab untuk merungut di Hun. Banyak kali, kita tdk dapat melepaskan diri drpd fikiran negatif dan „kesan samping” kehidupan di sini. Ramai-ramai orang di sini sedih, pesimis, marah dan suka bersungut. Jika seseorang senyum, orang-orang lain fikir dia bodoh, atau mereka iri hati melihat dia gembira. Kalau begitu, sangat susah berasa gembira dan ada pemikiran positif. Kata kesian kerana Syari juga ada pengalaman yang buruk.
Walau bagaimanapun, marilah kita cuba fikir positif - mengatasi masalah-masalah hidup akan lebih mudah dengan fikiran positif.

Syari said...

Farah, memang jenis mulut kenkadang jenis laser, kena je comment.I'd feel like I might burst if I don't give a comment. Mia ha ha ha.

Syari said...

Kata, terima kasih kerana memahami. Saya faham mengapa ramai disini berfikiran negatif. Kehidupan agak sukar dengan perkhidmatan yang kurang memuaskan. Perkhidmatan agak buruk kerana pekerja juga tidak gembira. Gaji yang sangat rendah dengan kos kehidupan yang sangat tinggi. Di tempat saya tidak ada perkhidmatan telefon. Perkara yang mengejutkan. Kami tinggal di tpt yg sangat berhampiran dgn pusat bandar Budapest tetapi t-home mengatakan tiada perkhidmatan disini.

Kehidupan saya agak baik berbanding dengan orang lain disini. Tapi bila orang lain sangat negatif, agak sukar utk terus positif.

MarlyMS said...

Commenting on a statement sometimes make us feel lifted once it has been expressed.

Marly
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